Guy#47: Mr. “Baby mama drama”
Girl, this guy is going to put your ass through some shit!
You can tell by his nickname that he has kids. You could have baby mama drama times 2, 3 or 4! It’s sounds crazy but yal know I ain’t lying.
This kind of guy is always on edge. He’s always stressed out over the never-ending war that he has going on with his baby mama (or baby mamas). He’s at war with her, her family (especially her mama), her new man, the courts and the police! It’s no wonder that he’s always pissed off! Basically he got involved with this woman, they had children and his life has been a living hell ever since! You might be his little piece of heaven but because of his drama he’ll make your life a living hell.
Dude is always broke because the majority of his income goes toward child support. Maybe he pays child support to the state. Or maybe he and his baby mama have some sort of an “agreement” in which he gives her a certain amount of money every week, etc. Regardless of the arrangement he is guaranteed to have conflict with his baby mama over money and the time spent with his kids. He may be the kind of guy that gives 100% effort in raising his kids. But his sincere efforts will never be enough for his baby mama. She will always be critical of him, verbally insulting him, or even getting physical with him!
That’s right, your man might get into physical altercations with his baby mama and she might be the one kicking his ass!
Let’s be honest: This guy could be a dead-beat dad. The type who completely neglects his kids, hardly ever spending time with them and not supporting them financially. There are guys that fit this profile who will actually refuse to work so that they don’t have to worry about the state garnishing their small paychecks for child support! His baby mama may have just reasons for hating his ass and causing him so much grief!
Whether he takes care of his kids or he neglects them, his life revolves around them and the drama between him and his kids’ mama. This will mean that your relationship with him will suffer. He won’t be able to spend quality time with you because he’ll be dealing with “family” issues. And he may not feel comfortable talking to you about his baby mama drama. Most of the time you won’t know what the hell is going on and you’ll feel like an outsider. Then again, maybe you’ll know too much, which will make you even more stressed-out.
Now let’s talk a little about his baby mama...
The bitch is crazy!
I don’t like to call women out their name, but this lady is nuts! We all can get bitchy sometimes but her bitchy-ness is permanent. First of all, she’s jealous of you. And it may not even be about you. She’s just jealous, period, because her baby daddy has moved on and has a new relationship. She would hate you no matter who you were. But that doesn’t make you feel any better because this chick is liable to take some of her rage against him out on you. No matter how cool and civil you try to be, expect her to talk shit. It’ll start out being in-direct, but once “you’ve been around for a while”, she’ll start talking shit to you over the telephone, by email, by letter, by fax and eventually straight to your face. And though you may have kept your cool many times before, eventually you’re going to get tired of her shit and start fighting back.
Speaking of fighting, don’t be surprised if you and this crazy bitch come to blows!
Because you’re in a relationship with this guy, his drama will become your drama. You’ll be right by his side as he battles with his baby mama. Her family and friends will hate you. And as for his family and friends, they may actually side with his baby mama! As I said earlier, you’re an outsider, and when you’re dealing with a guy like this you won’t be the biggest influence on him. Others, from his mama to his best friend, will be in his ear trying to tell him what to do about his baby mama drama situation. Everyone around him may be suspicious of you and encourage him to break up with you or at least show indifference to you and the relationship.
With all of the drama going in, this guy might actually blame you for his baby mama drama and the problems happening in you and his relationship. After he goes through his baby mama drama with that crazy bitch he’s likely to come home and start drama with you. Expect many nights of fighting and fussing. Expect to have sex less and less. You will start to look at this guy differently. In the beginning you may have had respect for him and once you saw firsthand how much drama his kids’ mama puts his through, you started feeling sorry for him. But now that his baby mama drama has poisoned your relationship with him, you see him as a weak, pathetic loser!
And don’t even get me started on his kids! Maybe they can’t stand your ass! Or maybe they get on your nerves so much that you wish you could drop their little bad asses off on the side of the road somewhere! Still, you might really love this guy and seriously consider having kids of your own by him.
Girl, please!!!
There’s no reason why you should have to deal with all the shit that he, his kids, his baby mama, her family and friends, and his family and friends are guaranteed to put you through if you stay with this fool. So, if you’re involved with Mr. “Baby mama drama” and you think one day you might actually marry this guy....
Girl, don’t do it!!
You can tell by his nickname that he has kids. You could have baby mama drama times 2, 3 or 4! It’s sounds crazy but yal know I ain’t lying.
This kind of guy is always on edge. He’s always stressed out over the never-ending war that he has going on with his baby mama (or baby mamas). He’s at war with her, her family (especially her mama), her new man, the courts and the police! It’s no wonder that he’s always pissed off! Basically he got involved with this woman, they had children and his life has been a living hell ever since! You might be his little piece of heaven but because of his drama he’ll make your life a living hell.
Dude is always broke because the majority of his income goes toward child support. Maybe he pays child support to the state. Or maybe he and his baby mama have some sort of an “agreement” in which he gives her a certain amount of money every week, etc. Regardless of the arrangement he is guaranteed to have conflict with his baby mama over money and the time spent with his kids. He may be the kind of guy that gives 100% effort in raising his kids. But his sincere efforts will never be enough for his baby mama. She will always be critical of him, verbally insulting him, or even getting physical with him!
That’s right, your man might get into physical altercations with his baby mama and she might be the one kicking his ass!
Let’s be honest: This guy could be a dead-beat dad. The type who completely neglects his kids, hardly ever spending time with them and not supporting them financially. There are guys that fit this profile who will actually refuse to work so that they don’t have to worry about the state garnishing their small paychecks for child support! His baby mama may have just reasons for hating his ass and causing him so much grief!
Whether he takes care of his kids or he neglects them, his life revolves around them and the drama between him and his kids’ mama. This will mean that your relationship with him will suffer. He won’t be able to spend quality time with you because he’ll be dealing with “family” issues. And he may not feel comfortable talking to you about his baby mama drama. Most of the time you won’t know what the hell is going on and you’ll feel like an outsider. Then again, maybe you’ll know too much, which will make you even more stressed-out.
Now let’s talk a little about his baby mama...
The bitch is crazy!
I don’t like to call women out their name, but this lady is nuts! We all can get bitchy sometimes but her bitchy-ness is permanent. First of all, she’s jealous of you. And it may not even be about you. She’s just jealous, period, because her baby daddy has moved on and has a new relationship. She would hate you no matter who you were. But that doesn’t make you feel any better because this chick is liable to take some of her rage against him out on you. No matter how cool and civil you try to be, expect her to talk shit. It’ll start out being in-direct, but once “you’ve been around for a while”, she’ll start talking shit to you over the telephone, by email, by letter, by fax and eventually straight to your face. And though you may have kept your cool many times before, eventually you’re going to get tired of her shit and start fighting back.
Speaking of fighting, don’t be surprised if you and this crazy bitch come to blows!
Because you’re in a relationship with this guy, his drama will become your drama. You’ll be right by his side as he battles with his baby mama. Her family and friends will hate you. And as for his family and friends, they may actually side with his baby mama! As I said earlier, you’re an outsider, and when you’re dealing with a guy like this you won’t be the biggest influence on him. Others, from his mama to his best friend, will be in his ear trying to tell him what to do about his baby mama drama situation. Everyone around him may be suspicious of you and encourage him to break up with you or at least show indifference to you and the relationship.
With all of the drama going in, this guy might actually blame you for his baby mama drama and the problems happening in you and his relationship. After he goes through his baby mama drama with that crazy bitch he’s likely to come home and start drama with you. Expect many nights of fighting and fussing. Expect to have sex less and less. You will start to look at this guy differently. In the beginning you may have had respect for him and once you saw firsthand how much drama his kids’ mama puts his through, you started feeling sorry for him. But now that his baby mama drama has poisoned your relationship with him, you see him as a weak, pathetic loser!
And don’t even get me started on his kids! Maybe they can’t stand your ass! Or maybe they get on your nerves so much that you wish you could drop their little bad asses off on the side of the road somewhere! Still, you might really love this guy and seriously consider having kids of your own by him.
Girl, please!!!
There’s no reason why you should have to deal with all the shit that he, his kids, his baby mama, her family and friends, and his family and friends are guaranteed to put you through if you stay with this fool. So, if you’re involved with Mr. “Baby mama drama” and you think one day you might actually marry this guy....
Girl, don’t do it!!
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