Monday, June 4, 2007

Guy#6: Mr. “Treats my loved one like shit”

You can see by this guy's nickname that you’re not involved with this clown, your sister, girlfriend or some other loved one is. But even though he’s not your man, because you are so close and care so much about her, naturally you’re close to the relationship.

This guy mistreats your loved one. He treats her just like his nickname says-like shit!! He yells at her, insulting her by calling her terrible names. He’s the jealous type that often accuses her of cheating on him. Most likely she’s not though she should be! Anyway, this asshole is likely to be very abusive toward her. If your loved one and him have kids he’s abusive to them as well. The kids fear him and so does your loved one. He’s a selfish guy that has no respect for your loved one (or anybody else) and takes advantage of her any chance he gets. He’s likely to be cheating on her and you’re likely to know about it.

He might have even tried to hit on you!

He is an insecure punk that is likely to be an underachiever. Now he might be successful which could be part of the reason why your loved one stays with him (he gives her “stability”). But it’s much more likely that he's a nobody.

Anyway you slice it, this is a bad guy and your loved one should have left him a long time ago!

But your girl is in love with this fool! That’s how love is; it’ll make a fool out of a person. But it hurts you to see your girl used and abused by this fool. It ain’t even worth it, but no matter how much you try to get her to leave him she stays. This guy knows that he has her under his control. He preys on her weaknesses. If she ever tried to leave who knows what he’s liable to do! To see this happening to your girl breaks your heart.

This kind of man could be involved with your sister, cousin, mama, aunt…any other female close to you.

Why is this guy on the list?

Because the relationship that your loved one has with this chump will sour you on ever becoming too serious and getting married. The relationship started out great but you have watched the relationship gradually (or quickly) go from made in heaven to dwelling in hell! You may be the type of woman that takes your time when it comes to men and relationships. You “have friends”, you go out on dates and have a good time but you don’t have anything serious going on with anybody. But your loved one falls hard and quick for a guy and has plain ol’ bad luck when it comes to men.

Being so concerned about her might affect the relationship that you’re in because you’re likely to invest so much of your time making sure that she’s ok, meanwhile your perfectly healthy relationship gets “sick”. When someone you love is getting screwed over by a guy it’s only normal for you to want to take care of her and fight her battle for her. Now you can’t find or keep a good man because you’re too busy trying to help her straighten out her love life.
So, if someone you love is involved with Mr. “Treats my loved one like shit” and you think one day you might actually get married....

Girl, don’t do it!!

(Your husband could end up being ten times worst than this fool!)

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