Guy#23: Mr. “Obsessed with me”
In the beginning of the relationship with this guy you’ll mistake his obsession with you as “cute” infatuation. You’ll welcome all of the attention he gives you. Most guys that you’ve been involved with in the past neglected you. They only called you if they wanted sex (a booty call); they only took you out to a dinner and a movie if they thought you were going to give them some at the end of the night. Most guys seem to have a one-track mind-SEX!
But homie is “different”. This kind of guy actually treats you with respect. He cares about what you think and he’s concerned about your overall well-being. Without a doubt he treats you better than any other guy has ever treated you. Girl, this guy will have you feeling all good about yourself, treating you like a queen. The way he treats you will do wonders to your self-esteem and for a while you’ll feel like the luckiest girl in the world!
But here’s the reality: Homie is completely, totally, obsessed with you!
Don’t mistake obsession with infatuation or love. If you weren’t so blind you would have been able to clearly see from the beginning that this guy is trying to control you. He wants to dominate the relationship. He’s overprotective and at times within the relationship he seems to take on a fatherly role instead of being your man. Yep, this clown carries on as if he’s your daddy!
One of the reasons why he is so controlling is because he’s insecure about himself and even more insecure about the relationship. He probably has gone through disappointing relationships in the past. He’s the type who’s been dumped too many times to count by previous girls or wives. His past relationships failed primarily because of his obsessive nature along with other qualities such as jealousy.
As I said before, the beginning of the relationship will be wonderful but it won’t take long for this guy to begin smothering you. He’ll never let you out of his sight. He’ll make a big deal out of you hanging out with your friends and even go as far as playing “third wheel” when you and your girlfriend go shopping at the mall. He’s the kind of guy that your family will absolutely love until they discover just how possessive he is of you and they haven’t seen your ass in years!
His obsession with you will get so bad that at some point you will become scared to death of this guy! And girl, you should be because homie has serious issues and you don’t know how far he’ll go to make sure that you never leave...can you say, “Murder-Suicide”!
I know, I know, maybe I’m going a little bit too far with that prediction (at least you hope so) but the point is this dude is desperate to get married so that he can “settle down”, raise a family and be in total control of your life. So, if you’re involved with Mr. “Obsessed with me” and you think one day you might actually marry this guy....
Girl, don’t do it!!
But homie is “different”. This kind of guy actually treats you with respect. He cares about what you think and he’s concerned about your overall well-being. Without a doubt he treats you better than any other guy has ever treated you. Girl, this guy will have you feeling all good about yourself, treating you like a queen. The way he treats you will do wonders to your self-esteem and for a while you’ll feel like the luckiest girl in the world!
But here’s the reality: Homie is completely, totally, obsessed with you!
Don’t mistake obsession with infatuation or love. If you weren’t so blind you would have been able to clearly see from the beginning that this guy is trying to control you. He wants to dominate the relationship. He’s overprotective and at times within the relationship he seems to take on a fatherly role instead of being your man. Yep, this clown carries on as if he’s your daddy!
One of the reasons why he is so controlling is because he’s insecure about himself and even more insecure about the relationship. He probably has gone through disappointing relationships in the past. He’s the type who’s been dumped too many times to count by previous girls or wives. His past relationships failed primarily because of his obsessive nature along with other qualities such as jealousy.
As I said before, the beginning of the relationship will be wonderful but it won’t take long for this guy to begin smothering you. He’ll never let you out of his sight. He’ll make a big deal out of you hanging out with your friends and even go as far as playing “third wheel” when you and your girlfriend go shopping at the mall. He’s the kind of guy that your family will absolutely love until they discover just how possessive he is of you and they haven’t seen your ass in years!
His obsession with you will get so bad that at some point you will become scared to death of this guy! And girl, you should be because homie has serious issues and you don’t know how far he’ll go to make sure that you never leave...can you say, “Murder-Suicide”!
I know, I know, maybe I’m going a little bit too far with that prediction (at least you hope so) but the point is this dude is desperate to get married so that he can “settle down”, raise a family and be in total control of your life. So, if you’re involved with Mr. “Obsessed with me” and you think one day you might actually marry this guy....
Girl, don’t do it!!
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