Monday, June 4, 2007

Guy#38: Mr. "Can’t stand kids”

Remember comedian Robin Harris’ famous comedy sketch about “BeBe’s kids”? Well this guy looks at all kids like they’re BeBe’s bad out-of-control kids! There are many guys like this who just don’t like kids, simple as that! But I’ll go as far as saying that there are grown-ass men who actually hate kids! This kind of guy is not family-oriented. You may never really have to seriously consider marrying him because he’s not interested in getting married. He enjoys being single too much.

This guy sees kids as a burden. In his mind, kids are a “curse”, an unfortunate necessary evil in dating and relationships. He knows that if he gets involved with a woman that it’s likely that he will have to deal with her kids, her nieces and nephews, the kids in the neighborhood, etc. Unless the woman is living in a community where they are no kids, he won’t be able to escape the sound of little feet and the sight of beady little eyes staring all in his face. Even if he’s young, he acts like a grouchy old man who no one really wants to be around especially kids. Kids know when their mere presence is not welcomed and he’s the kind of guy that puts fear in some kids and is the perfect guy to be fucked with by the more brave, mischievous kids.

He’s likely to have kids of his own that he neglects, making him the all too familiar deadbeat dad that sistas have dealt with for far too long. He’s the type that might not even claim his kids leaving you to believe that he doesn’t have any. And the bad thing about it is that this kind of guy who hates kids is usually the guy with the most kids! Damn, if he can’t stand them then why does he keep having them by woman after woman...?

He is the worst kind of guy to have children by because he will either be too much of a disciplinarian or not much involved in his children’s lives at all. In addition to hating kids he tends to be a male chauvinist, seeing his woman as his property. Women are obviously maternal, and we invest a lot physically and emotionally into our kids. This guy resents that. He’s often jealous of the kids and see them as competition for your complete devotion. In his eyes, he should come first in your life and the kids should be a distant second.

As I said earlier, he’s not family-oriented and he will often clash with your family especially your mama! Yeah, this guy hates your mama and she can’t stand his ass! Your mama loves her grandkids and it breaks her heart to see how he treats them and you. Him and her will often fuss and fight over how the kids should be raised. This guy is simply irresponsible when it comes to taking care of his family and has no desire to do right by them.

So, if you’re involved with Mr. “He can’t stand kids” and you think one day you might actually marry this guy....

Girl, don’t do it!!

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